How do you have sex with someone who has Herpies? Â

How do you have sex with someone who has Herpies?  

answers 0:It is rumored to have herpes, I haven't asked him if its true yet seeing as I have only started to really hang out with him. I like him and he likes me, but long story short. If he does have herpes, would I ever be able to a sexual relationship with him and if so, how would i?answers 1:for all these people saying 'oh don't have sex. i wouldn't have sex with someone with an STD' ok first of all. stop being so ignorant. with your bad karma saying that, you will probably sleep with someone who has one and doesn't tell you, and you will get it. people aren't 'dirty' or 'disgusting' who have one. you don't know the situation. of course you can have sex with him, just be cautious. condoms are helpful, but don't always prevent the virus from spreading. if he is on medication, your chance of contracting the disease is 1% in a NORMAL SEXUAL pattern in a year. 1%. a! lso, one in 4 adults have it, and most people don't even know they are infected. do some research before you decide anything, and of course, its always your choice, but i think its ignorant and weak for someone to say ' i dont want to be with you because you have an std' what if it was cancer, would you still want to date them? its just the bad stigma of herpes and its ridiculous. ...answers 2:you don't. 🙂answers 3:well. youd have to wear condoms.and get him to take those meds on tv advertisments to subside his syptoms while you have sex so its less likely for you to get itthere are prob tons of products out there to help with have intercourse with someone with herpes....answers 4:chilly sores are led to by using Herpes Simplex Virus a million. HSV1 isn't an identical has HSV2, which motives genital herpes. **maximum folk aqauire HSV1 throughout their little ones and >eighty% of the inhabitants contains HSV1. human beings are not getting chilly sores each and every of th! e time, because of fact our physique develops antibodies for H! SV1. do no longer enable the different solutions convince you that your lady buddy slept around or what no longer. The virus would be unfold by using tiny breaks on the exterior or mucous membrane. as a rule, it does not unfold by using healthy dermis. If she does have a chilly sore and she or he provides oral, there is possibiliy of transmission because of bypass an infection. If a chilly sore is modern then, i'd suggestion that she does not provide you oral untilt he blister is going away. however the virus would be additionally unfold by using kissing and touching or perhaps sharing a fork. Taking an antiviral which incorporate acyclovir, can shrink the possibility of tranmssion a great deal....answers 5:Make sure he is not on a break out. Even if he looks like he is not breaking out he can still spread Herpes to you. You have to use condoms and make sure that he is on suppressive therapy.answers 6:first of all, to CASSS - dont put a smiley after that answer. you look! like an ignorant b*tch. and karma will bite you in the a** for that :)you CAN have a sexual relationship with him. just dont go by rumors and if things get more serious you need to have a conversation with him about it just so you are both aware of everything. always always use condoms! if he is on meds for it, even better for both of you. if not, thats fine too. its just about being careful which everyone should do. i bet every single person who talks sh*t about people with herpes has been intimate or at least kissed someone with it and not even known. its wayyyy more common than people think. transmission can be prevented and if you really like this guy GO FOR IT but just be really careful!! by the way -i have it and im MARRIED to someone who doesnt. so to all you people who say "clean" people shouldnt be with someone who has an std, f you :)...answers 7:ask him to go for check up and show you the medical reportgive him a handjob or lapdance,but don't indulge in sex ,if ! you feel he got herpesanswers 8:It's best not to have sex with him at a! ll. I don't want you to have herpes and neither do you. Okay?answers 9:you shouldn't, condoms don't protect you, and even with no lesions, they are contagious. If you are determined, you should ask a doctor for the safest way to have sex, female condoms are safer than male condoms in this situation.answers 10:don't do itanswers 11:Just don't have sex when he has a breakout. Or if you do,don't touch them! (the sores)The virus is infectious at the sore.answers 12:Make sure he's taking his meds faithfully, don't have sex during a breakout and most importantly USE PROTECTION. It would be easier for you guys to get tested for STDs together before you start having sex that way you know what's going on for sure.answers 13:Extremely carefully. Read up on it do a search on the internet. Beware going Bareback. Don't worry they say over 33% of the population has it already, it will get worse, I don't think they will ever find a cure in my lifetime.answers 14:2