answers 0:So my older brother is a recovering drug addict and was diagnosed with HIV in early 2002. He's mildly autistic and has severe social anxiety so it's sometimes necessary that I escort him to Narcotics Anonymous meetings. Recently, I've even been accompanying him to HIV/AIDS support groups under the guise that I’m also HIV positive. On the surface it might seem a little unseemly, but my presence helps to ease my brother’s social fears immensely.Anyway, I was immediately struck by this girl who heads the supports group. She contracted HIV relatively recently (at least compared to the rest of the group) and has the most amazing attitude about the world and her disease. She contracted HIV from a blood transfusion she received after she was injured doing charity work in South America. I’ve met her for coffee/dinner on three occasions now. Honestly I’ve never ! been quite so enamored with anybody ever before in my life.Problem is… she’s HIV positive and is under the impression that I am as well. I even concocted a detailed, elaborate back story about how I contracted HIV. How can I let her know that I lied without making her angry or damaging our relationship? Also, is a sexual relationship between us even feasible? How should I best handle the situation?...Show moreanswers 1:for first question: you can't, and it was stupid2) you should run as fast as you cananswers 2:Wait let me get this straight, because you're story is just wow, it's actually very interesting, You're HIV positive too? or is just your brother and you going with your brother to meetings and support groups and you meet this girl at your group and you like her, but she's HIV too and you're not?I'm kinda lost, on that part.Contact me, or repost explaining, this is very interesting, and i actually want to help you!...answers 3:as for the lie, if you can explain i! t they way you did to us, she will probably fogive you in time! .as for the sex, heres a article thats probably helpfull for you:Sex with HIV-Positive Partner Q: The man I've been dating just told me that he's HIV-positive. We haven't had sex yet, and even though I've heard that you can have sex with someone who has HIV and not catch it, I'm terrified. What exactly do we need to do to be as safe as possible? â€" Cammie, Georgia A: The only foolproof method of protecting yourself from any STD is abstinence. However, safer sex practices can help lessen your chances of contracting HIV or other STDs. Use a condom every time you have intercourse with your partner, including oral sex. When he performs oral sex on you, use a dental dam or plastic wrap to prevent the exchange of fluids, and use a condom when performing oral sex on him. (Kissing someone with HIV is safe, but if one or both of you has an oral sore, you should abstain from kissing until it heals.) Remember, all it takes is one incident of unprotected sex, so use protection every! single time you are intimate...answers 4:this is sad! im sorry, i know you have clicked with this girl but you dont want to run the risk of getting HIV its a walking death sentence! and no you cant have sex with her, you could use a condom but the chances are high of it breaking :/
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